“I Kissed A Girl”- Analysis

I recently watched Katy Perry’s music video for her 2008 hit song, “I Kissed A Girl,” on YouTube, and was intrigued by some assumptions about sexuality that were sometimes not so subtle in the video. In this blog post, I will explain those assumptions and how they were presented in Perry’s production.  

It is not completely clear who Perry’s intended audience is for this music video, however, I can infer that it was intended for pop music fans. With that said, the video likely targets young Americans, since that demographic tends to be more interested in American pop music. Continuing to discuss intention, it seems that Perry’s music video’s intended purpose is to share an experience that she had when she kissed a girl for the first time.

“I Kissed A Girl” is a song that was sang and released in 2008 by Katy Perry, a 37-year-old female pop star from Santa Barbara, California. Before diving into my evaluation of the music video itself, I want to provide a brief biography of Katy Perry. For context, Katy Perry is an American singer and celebrity who was born in Santa Barbara, California to parents who were Pentecostal (a form of protestant Christianity) pastors. Growing up, Katy Perry’s family moved homes often to different places in the western United States. Perry’s family was strictly religious, and she left home at fifteen to pursue a music career in Nashville, Tennessee. Perry’s music breakthrough took place during the early 2000s. “I Kissed A Girl” remains one of Perry’s most popular songs.

To accompany Perry’s hit song, a music video for “I Kissed A Girl” was uploaded to YouTube in 2008. In this music video, Katy Perry sings her song “I Kissed A Girl,” while flirting with other female friends in a bedroom setting. Throughout the video, Katy Perry and her friends are all wearing lingerie, and at one point during the music video, Katy Perry has a pillow fight with some of her female friends in the scene. This pillow fight is an example of a scene here that has a flirtatious undertone.

While acting in a flirtatious way throughout the video, Katy Perry sings along to her song “I Kissed A Girl,” which overall communicates a regret for kissing a girl.

For instance, in the first few lines of her song as she approaches the chorus, Perry makes the following statements: “this was not the way I planned,” “not my intention,” “lost my discretion,” and “it’s not what I’m used to.” When I first clicked on the music video on YouTube, I was aware of the title, “I Kissed A Girl,” so when I heard the first few lines of Perry’s song, I interpreted her as trying to explain to the audience that she did not want to kiss the girl. The idea that presented in my mind as I was watching was “is she apologizing or trying to plead some sort of innocence because she kissed a girl?” When making these statements, Perry is alone with a devious smile in the video.

During the chorus part of her song, Perry makes these statements: “I kissed a girl and I liked it,” “I kissed a girl just to try it,” “I hope my boyfriend don’t mind it,” “it felt so wrong,” “it felt so right,” and “don’t mean I’m in love tonight.” When making these statements in the video, Perry displays a more genuine smile, while surrounded by other women.

Two key feelings are conveyed in these statements. First, it seems clear that Perry enjoyed kissing the girl. Second, it is suggested that Perry might regret kissing the girl, but it is clear that she feels that her kissing the girl was unacceptable. By saying that “it felt so wrong” and “just to try it,” and “I hope my boyfriend don’t mind it,” Perry is suggesting that her behavior was in some way potentially unacceptable by her, her boyfriend, or greater society.

All the statements mentioned up to this point only make up the first minute of the music video, which altogether is three minutes. Pausing here, an observer of the video up to this point can assume some norms of society that are represented. More specifically, the first minute of this video is enough for one to correctly assume that American society views homosexuality as something that does not fit with the societal norm (heterosexuality).

Perry’s music video takes an interesting approach to homosexuality not being the norm. While the words being sang in the music video are apologetic for kissing a girl, Perry’s behavior on screen challenges the norm. If a homophobic person were to watch Perry’s video, their comfort would be directly challenged. Perhaps this impact was Perry’s intention through her music video. Maybe she wanted her words to acknowledge that two girls kissing is not the norm, and her behavior to challenge society’s conception of this norm.

The earlier mentioned statements persist throughout the remainder of Perry’s music video, along with others that are consistent with Perry’s regretful and apologetic attitude. For instance, Perry says “it’s not what good girls do,” “my head gets so confused,” and “hard to obey.” These statements are consistent with the ones made in the first minute of Perry’s music video.

Later, towards the end of Perry’s video, she makes the statement “ain’t no big deal, it’s innocent” when singing more about kissing the girl. This statement towards the end of the music video suggests that Perry has come to accept that there is nothing wrong with her kissing a girl. Instead, she asserts that society is guilty of making homophobia an unfortunately powerful norm that American systems promote and protect.

4 thoughts on ““I Kissed A Girl”- Analysis”

  1. I remember this song was also very popular in Peru when it came out. While I agree that some lines of the song point out at heteronormative norms and stereotypes, I think the song capitalises homoerotic acts. She makes clear it is not a “for-love” action, and the “I hope my boyfriend won’t mind it” just brings back this argument of if it’s a girl, it’s not cheating.

  2. I remember this song coming out and I thought: OMG does Katy Perry like girls??!! However, as you look further into the song lyrics, it’s obvious that she is still all caught up in society stereotypes about sexuality. By saying that “I hope my boyfriend won’t mind it,” proves that she is still trying to claim that she likes boys and because it’s a girl, it’s not cheating. Also, the song conveys that it’s okay for girls to kiss other girls because it’s “hot” for boys to watch.

    1. Wow when I listened to this song when it came out I had no idea the meaning behind it. And even now, reading this has given me a new and different way to look at the lyrics. It was always clear to me that the song was a sort of apology, but my interpretation was that she was apologizing to her boyfriend for cheating on him. Now that you’ve zoomed in on the lyrics however it is clear the apology is not to the boyfriend she is just saying that she isn’t cheating because it is a girl, and not a boy. Very interesting analysis I enjoyed reading this a lot!

  3. I listened to this song when I was in middle school and remember being shocked listening to the song. The music video and the song seem more experimental than respecting the LGBTQ community. As you mentioned, the way she wrote her lyrics sounds like she regrets kissing the girl and feels that her kissing the girl was unacceptable, and also the fact that she says she has a boyfriend makes the listener fantasize about kissing the same gender. The song is reinforcing the stereotypes about LGBTQ and sexualizes the concept.

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4 thoughts on ““I Kissed A Girl”- Analysis”

  1. I remember this song was also very popular in Peru when it came out. While I agree that some lines of the song point out at heteronormative norms and stereotypes, I think the song capitalises homoerotic acts. She makes clear it is not a “for-love” action, and the “I hope my boyfriend won’t mind it” just brings back this argument of if it’s a girl, it’s not cheating.

  2. I remember this song coming out and I thought: OMG does Katy Perry like girls??!! However, as you look further into the song lyrics, it’s obvious that she is still all caught up in society stereotypes about sexuality. By saying that “I hope my boyfriend won’t mind it,” proves that she is still trying to claim that she likes boys and because it’s a girl, it’s not cheating. Also, the song conveys that it’s okay for girls to kiss other girls because it’s “hot” for boys to watch.

    1. Wow when I listened to this song when it came out I had no idea the meaning behind it. And even now, reading this has given me a new and different way to look at the lyrics. It was always clear to me that the song was a sort of apology, but my interpretation was that she was apologizing to her boyfriend for cheating on him. Now that you’ve zoomed in on the lyrics however it is clear the apology is not to the boyfriend she is just saying that she isn’t cheating because it is a girl, and not a boy. Very interesting analysis I enjoyed reading this a lot!

  3. I listened to this song when I was in middle school and remember being shocked listening to the song. The music video and the song seem more experimental than respecting the LGBTQ community. As you mentioned, the way she wrote her lyrics sounds like she regrets kissing the girl and feels that her kissing the girl was unacceptable, and also the fact that she says she has a boyfriend makes the listener fantasize about kissing the same gender. The song is reinforcing the stereotypes about LGBTQ and sexualizes the concept.

Comments are closed.